Beneath Those Smile

Life is pretentious when you come to relationship, sometimes a person can just pretend that everything's fine when comes to connection between the two lovers, but this idea of having a great couple is just too good to be true sometimes especially when you just feel like been floating over the rainbow and realized that you are in a good relationship. We used to say that, 'fight for what you want,and preserve something you really love', does this works with any relationship as well? Some of us just want to be in a better relationship, far from trouble and argument. This makes a relationship tough when comes knowing that the only way to make it happen is to keep your mouth shut and just follow with the current flow, like letting the water run free in the river without any barriers. I'm not an expert in relationship nor does I qualified to give any advice to those love birds out there who might read this, but sometimes you can see and sense that from the people around you that how much a person can change when comes to a relationship that you have volunteer to entered. WE changes through times and this changes has affected us in any way possible for us to feel the pinch when we gonna end it. Are we really being genuine to each other to actually push this far to commit in a relationship that are not sure where it's heading to? Are we being honest to each other when comes to the truth lies behind those smile? Or we just being pretentious so that the other person just wanna like us more?

A relationship is not just about the physical touch or being notice your presence, but its more like a emotional kinda of thing, which is hard to understand because this feeling is too ambiguous to be define, but somehow human manage to control and understand the whole concept of being in love and committed in a relationship, but what is important at the end of the day is whether this really happen to us or just we still pretend that it does happen, and sometimes we just forgot where has all this begun, whether we are being truthful to yourself and others, ask yourself whether is this for real? Are you ready to be committed in a relationship for as long as you gonna spent the rest of your life with that person that you might stop loving him or her one day? Or maybe this is just another Eat,Pray,Love moment where you wanna find yourself and just go on to inner search about what you truly want till one day you met the right him or her, then live happily ever after? Well life is not as easy as that, I thought. Even a marriage that last for 50 years can ended up with a divorce and this shows how human behavior can change through life and this again shows how they has suffers for the longest time ever, 50! Damn! So start find your true love and do not stop searching for love because love would not find you unless you start find it yourself, start with loving the most important person first! Yourself! With that things will come into places, with all that you will indeed live happily ever after, who doesn't want to live happily like Cinderella or Snow White? But perhaps who knows behind those smile of Cinderella, she might not be happy with her Prince, and that is a story to be changed, but only by that person itself!


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