Lies

The moment we had together,
The experience we faced together,
The time we spent together,
Is just a waste when you throw rocks to my face,
The arrow that struck to my liver without knowing what's the effect/

Those lies you create is massive,
Those lies is truly your creation without a doubt you are a liar!

Beneath Those Smile

Life is pretentious when you come to relationship, sometimes a person can just pretend that everything's fine when comes to connection between the two lovers, but this idea of having a great couple is just too good to be true sometimes especially when you just feel like been floating over the rainbow and realized that you are in a good relationship. We used to say that, 'fight for what you want,and preserve something you really love', does this works with any relationship as well? Some of us just want to be in a better relationship, far from trouble and argument. This makes a relationship tough when comes knowing that the only way to make it happen is to keep your mouth shut and just follow with the current flow, like letting the water run free in the river without any barriers. I'm not an expert in relationship nor does I qualified to give any advice to those love birds out there who might read this, but sometimes you can see and sense that from the people around you that how much a person can change when comes to a relationship that you have volunteer to entered. WE changes through times and this changes has affected us in any way possible for us to feel the pinch when we gonna end it. Are we really being genuine to each other to actually push this far to commit in a relationship that are not sure where it's heading to? Are we being honest to each other when comes to the truth lies behind those smile? Or we just being pretentious so that the other person just wanna like us more?

A relationship is not just about the physical touch or being notice your presence, but its more like a emotional kinda of thing, which is hard to understand because this feeling is too ambiguous to be define, but somehow human manage to control and understand the whole concept of being in love and committed in a relationship, but what is important at the end of the day is whether this really happen to us or just we still pretend that it does happen, and sometimes we just forgot where has all this begun, whether we are being truthful to yourself and others, ask yourself whether is this for real? Are you ready to be committed in a relationship for as long as you gonna spent the rest of your life with that person that you might stop loving him or her one day? Or maybe this is just another Eat,Pray,Love moment where you wanna find yourself and just go on to inner search about what you truly want till one day you met the right him or her, then live happily ever after? Well life is not as easy as that, I thought. Even a marriage that last for 50 years can ended up with a divorce and this shows how human behavior can change through life and this again shows how they has suffers for the longest time ever, 50! Damn! So start find your true love and do not stop searching for love because love would not find you unless you start find it yourself, start with loving the most important person first! Yourself! With that things will come into places, with all that you will indeed live happily ever after, who doesn't want to live happily like Cinderella or Snow White? But perhaps who knows behind those smile of Cinderella, she might not be happy with her Prince, and that is a story to be changed, but only by that person itself!


luv,
redz

Today's Menu!

Our menu today...enjoy! =)

My favorite dish ever! Chicken cashew nut with plum sauce! I cooked..

A simple spinach with oyster sauce! Simple but healthy! 

Fish Sardine curry! My sister cooks it! 

Mee Tikus(weird name I know) but it taste awesome!!! 

Some malay delicacies! =)

love,

redz

To Shave Or NOT To Shave??

Have you been into a jungle? Have you been stuck in any bushes, ever before?

Well that's an awful feeling, isn't? So, a few days ago there's this one display in the net about this whole story about one of the weightlifters in the London 2012 games did not realized that her 'bushes' have been a huge phenomenon around the globe! When I'm saying bushes then it means her armpit hair, isn't that disgusting when we are saying about ladies armpit hair??!!!

For any ladies out there, it's a major issue to ensure that your armpit is clear from anything except for birth marks(which you cannot throw away). However, I was surprise to observed the gymnastic athletes especially man's gymnast was clearly has shave off their armpit hair....

So, what happen to the gender that suppose to be clean and tidy and not to mention free off from any hair that can humiliate them further??!!

Who Am I to judge this kind of behavior and if we go to the south Brazil where every single ladies there will get their special wax at any parts of their body, and they are well known for their Brazilian Wax! Well we do not to know what's down under,right?

Then looking back to those male model on the runaway or even when you flip the fashion magazines then you will see all these muscular male with hairless on their body! They just portrait themselves into the other version of male, which is the pretty male that made from rod steel! Kinda weird isn't? Male model has dominant over female model lately and people wanna see male model more on stage,rather than female! That's something which is shocking! People like David Beckam who looks HOT when he got the tattoo at his body but when you look at some girls who actually got a tattoo then it will turn ugly instead!

So, the battle of the sexes will never end I guess...but people just pretend that it never happens..LOL

p/s no pictures for this, so that I won't make any of my readers puke while reading this...=)

Shave Off GALS!
redz

Feast For the King!

The main course of our meal today, happy browsing guys...=)

Fried juicy lemon chicken! 

Fried fish with special thai sauce....

Spinach with sea weed =) 

Shall we start? 

luv

redz

My Favorite Songs

The song that just make me think about my life...

Attraversiamo

“Life is without meaning. You bring the meaning to it. The meaning of life is whatever you ascribe it to be. Being alive is the meaning.”- Joseph Campbell


The times has stated again when it's time to make your main choice and this choice is the main thing that gonna change your life entirely from top to toe! From A-Z! From nothing to something! From here to there! From fantasy to reality! 


But in all these fantasizing all these amazing dreams then its far too much too dream to far and without realizing it we just wasted our time in something that you might be saying it too early to deny that what you had chosen at the beginning was just so wrong! And that time you will say 'I should have listen to my mum/dad/my friends etc.' 


For some, too be dream of something to do in the future is a passion since we're small. But for some people it might be a scary thing to do, to dream and of course make it come true!


At one point, not all of us are fortune to have been born in silver wear family where dad's sending their kids to private schools and mum sends their daughters to ballet class, ended up to a spoil little brat who does not know anything about life and how life can treated you very difficult!

It's preposterous to go through a life without any hassle, and these kids should learn that dreams are not made off notes that has a person face on it! They should understand the whole meaning behind falling to the right places when comes to the reality!


There is this one old italian lady used to said that 'If you wanna see your dream, then you need to cross over', well attraversiamo do mean cross over in italian. So, sometimes we do need to take a little risk in doing something and by doing something we must make it a full swing, rather than half way doing it then quit! What I mean here is dream is to be made for us to fulfill our long desire, maybe for some of us dream can be differ in so many ways and for some it can be in terms of monetary or maybe properties, but think about desire of pride! See different people! Different cultures! And religions! Or maybe learn some new language that can just challenge you from all senses! It's something new and it might be one of your desire! Money can find anyway, but can one person define satisfaction? I think you, who read this can answer that very well! =)


So, let's cross over to a new revelation for the future by making your life a better place to stay for your generation to come..


Attraversiamo! 


ciao!


redz=)

Triumph to the Champs!

It's a long journey for all of us, Malaysian. We witness the most crucial event every single time we loss in a game that make us human being too arrogant and realized the value of competition.
It's not about the idea of be the most perfect person on earth but sometimes it's just being who you are and be proud of how you had made so far. The whole story starts when the whole nation freeze from anything and just watching the most crucial game ever, and it's not just a game but a game that make us came into tears and wonder whether its' our turn next?! Witnessed the event between national player, Datuk Lee Chong Wei and his rival, Lin Dan. It's like you are witnessing the whole event between Harry Potter and Lord Voldermort, Hang Tuah and Taming Sari, what else I could said it's the best game ever! The whole story about #DLCW that supposed to be abbreviation of Datuk Lee Chong Wei but somehow it give another meaning in the USA. So yeah, the game was all related to who gonna bring back the gold medal for the single's man final. And it last to the two man on earth that cannot deny at any moment that they are the best yet player ever!

Anyhow, back to the main point here, it's not about if you got the first place on earth or even you are the fastest person on the planet, it does not change a thing, because it will remain as history but one thing that sure remain is everyone is a champs regardless if we got the first place, second place or even the last place for that matter, it just does not depend on anything at all, because we are just the same, from the same roots of life, and our pathways might be different but we have the same thing everyone has, soul! strength! feelings!
So, what if we been defeated today? So, what if we been the second place tomorrow? So, what if we are the second on the row the following day? If we meant to be the second place then be it! Accept it! But your fans and god especially will always be your NO.1.

Gold wont be there for you forever and eventually money as well, but what is the reason behind all the pride if you do not feel happy?

Life is like roller coaster, maybe there's a reason why we on the second row, so that it gives us space and time to think about how to get the first row, but look at it as a kindness and generous gesture of being polite to let others get the first row,because our turn might be sooner or later and that time will be their time to reflect the same way.

p/s Congratulations to Datuk Lee Chong Wei, you had brilliantly make us,Malaysian proud of your compassion spirit in any way. There's no way we might repay you,but we'll always be there by yourside all the way!

redz

Perfect World

Have you ever wonder to wake up from a perfect dream and realized that everything you dream off is there right in front of your eyes!

The perfect family,
The perfect husband/wife,
The Aces son/daughter,
The perfect house at the hill,
The perfect job,
The perfect day,
The perfect life,
The perfect world!

AH! Dream! That's a wonderful life isn't? It's just perfect life without any trouble and worries about anything!
Shame that none of it happens to any of us, even the poor or neither the rich need to face a lots of trouble to survive on this planet, it's not an easy journey for any of us, perhaps we have the will power to run right now, but sooner later we might facing the sunset, where it's our turn to fall sick and face the god and that's whats count at the end of the day.

It's not about how much you learn in this amazing journey but it's about how you make it happen, maybe for some of us came from different backgrounds, different places might give us the vast of opportunity to shine but in some it might put us in the back row, and this shows not all of us is lucky to make it to the front! Cherish with your love ones and make it every single minute counts and remember its not all about yourself.

p/s- this is a message to myself as well, in reminding myself where I came from..

love,

redz

K-POP? Aikssss!

I was on the bus the other week, and I can't stop eavesdropped this two aunty, where they were talking one topic that I cannot believe myself, they were talking about drama! Well, this is not those normal drama of housewives or which B*^!(H steal my HUBBY! BUT they were talking about which actor is hot and which actor has the most cutest face! And I heard the name like Kim Sung Soo, Kim Hyun-Joong(well I do need to googled their name for the right spelling!).

Okay I got it! This whole phenomenon of Korean PoP(or what famous known as K-Pop culture) is a very famous indeed where most of the time when any Korean artist came down to Malaysia to stage a performance then the tickets is sold out! Without a doubt Malaysian enthusiasm about this whole K-Pop culture is overwhelm from young girls, boys, adults, aunties and even uncles as well.

Those adorable face, pinky lips, fantastic hair(even the guys' hair in the drama does not change at all!) and yet those sweet story line either about chasing after this one cute girl or maybe argued at the streets and then ended up carrying the girls back home, it's so typical!

C'mon! This whole culture of K-Pop has made our society mad! Everyone start to stare at their idol and just imagine how if they can actually meet their idol in person, or maybe worst still look like one of them! One of my friend who just came back from Seoul a few months ago and she told me that she had a hard time finding a guy on the street that looks like Daniel Henney(a korean born actor), and she said to her disappointment and she added that Malaysian Guys are lot better! LOL!

Its' not wrong for you to fancy on something, like myself, I love classical music(that's actually real music,if you ask me) and it just depends on our preference but just don't be too dramatic till you wanna follow their culture! Its their culture not ours! From their way of dressing, the hair,the face, and not to mention about some Korean names! Some of this malaysian fellow like to have their Korean nickname! Whats' that for??!!!
Again, who am I to judge? But just be yourself! Rather being someone else, and this goes back to our roots and our own culture and language.Be Proud to be Malaysian!

Peace
Redz