Life

Life and death is just beyond our duty, some will deny this even if they do not want to get old and live the life that they do not wish to live. It is sad but rather cruel when life is always unpredictable, life is just between us and god. Yeah! Who were those who believe that life is just to work and eat and get things done the way it supposed to be, then it is absolutely wrong. Life is more than that. Life is meaningful for some, and perhaps does not mean anything on the contrary. It depends on how we look at it from our point of view. It is rather vague to say that life is so dry when we actually do not live in anything rather than lies and denial. Look around you, and see those who work very hard just to get their end of month wages. Look at those who want to survive by working around the clock just to get the essential food for their kids at home. Some never realised this and maybe some just do not want to think about this at all. What is the main purpose of us living on this planet? Is it for life and death? Or rather try everything that does not give any boundary for us to do (not committing a crime of course), maybe travel to the wonderful Italy and give a try for the best pizza in Naples or perhaps try sky diving to challenge your courage to do something crazy and wild.
Some people believe that life is just to get marry and not to mention about having kids, this to ensure that our genes for each person or family can be inheritance, this is the problem here. Imagine if a guy or may be a girl who actually do not want to get marry and enjoy their single life but little did they know that they need to get marry one day. This cause by the conservative parents who believed that their kids must continue up giving their gens to the following future. But imagine this, people with a high qualification and those who have a professional background are highly the one who will ending up single forever. Some argued that they are too choosy and some argued that they cannot find the suitable partner. Life is so funny and weird. People just want to be happy and they thought that they can always stay happy forever after. Well, face the fact, we all going to get old one day and we all will eventually die one day. There is no question about if we can be happy or not, it is just depends on us how we draw our life line. It is rather daunting to face the fact of life. Some maybe were born in a rich family and some will be born in a home-racking-family where both parents might abusing their kids and just be selfish about the whole temptation of life.
I met one of my close friends the other day, and at my surprised she’s going to get marry. Out of sudden, right? She told me she cannot live single forever and she needs a husband. I was speechless, she is so young and she has so many things to learn and to explore about the world and she is going to give it all and just settle at home as a full time housewife at the age of 22!! Gosh. This is amazing. And so crazy. Imagine what my friend keep telling me that she wants a husband at that age, how about those who like 45 years old and still looking for the right one? And by the way, my friend been set up with this one guy that she herself did not know about but she did not hesitate on accepting the offer of marriage by that guy. Life is so unpredictable again. Life is meaningful but rather weird when you just want to give it all just to have a family. Look people, those out there who have huge dreams, maybe becoming a surgeon like those in Grey’s Anatomy or maybe become a Broadway star and just unleash your talent and your amazing ideas to the whole world to see can be a good start for a wonderful life. Does not matter if you are at the right side where others think you are not, but look at it as you are living the life you ever wanted. And if this you choose to live then maybe this is how you should continue doing it. I wish this article can inspire hundreds of people out there to go after their dreams and live the life they ever want it to be. Just be yourself in every aspect and finish whatever you had start and never ever say NO to yourself even though others might think it’s weird on what you are doing. As long what you’re doing is right and you’re happy with it, then no question about that.