Love

The word love came into my head when i was watching the television, where the final masterchef US aired for its final battle, here came the picture of the contestant where both of them LOVE to cook, their passion about something and ensure that what they are doing were 100% from their hearts, it has been the idea of love and compassion to push them to the line of doing something they wanna do, it doesn't mean when we talk about love then it must be a love towards your other half, your partner, your boyfriend, your girlfriend, it can be towards anyone or perhaps anything you LOVE to do that makes you happy.
I have a friend who LOVE to go to the gym, he can't stop doing gym every single day, and he devoted himself 100% on his gym rather on his girlfriend, which is can be wrong,your gym won't be there for you when you are sad and it won't be there for you when you are happy, but for my friend which i just remain him as "J" is indeed a gymholic(that might be true). So, what is actually love and compassion towards the human being character when comes to companionship, where we as human being need one another, and god created that we do not run solo, it must be a duet! So, the world of love introduce the idea of two people being together, but I wanna ask you guys out there, do you believe that true love still exist? For some its just hard to imagine that after what they been through, break-ups, divorces, and many kind of relationship leakage occur in today's world.
The world is no longer last the whole idea of love and compassion, we start having war between one country with one another. Here, where is actually love? Is there love between war in two countries? Is there a slight of love and affection between this two creature? Its very hard to explain how love just fall into places because this requires a lot of experience, where you need to realize that love is not just about being together and laughing and crying with one another, but being love with one another means there is a sense of care, a sense of knowing that you cant live without your lover, is this what we call love in today's situation? I think its best for you to answer that question?
For some, the idea of break up in the past is hard to resist, and some its kinda hard to move on where they might have the delusion that the same thing will happen again. But, for the concern of everyone, you just never try, so how do you know if it really will happen again for the second time in your life?
So, go out guys, find your love, its never too late for you to find your true love, you do have one more chance to live, which is right now! So don't waste any time, if you feel you need to start from zero then do it, if you feel that you are too good enough to be the "right" person, try to be more of yourself rather than that person that you perhaps don't want to be, be passion on love again. It's time to create your own love story rather than watching one.

With Love,
Red

The Price You Pay To Play...

"Mummy!! I wanna go for another ride,can I??", said Jonny to his mother,and his mother replied,"Son,haven't you had enough of roller coaster? You should try another ride!", well this scene is hard to imagine but it does happen whenever you bring your kids to any kinds of ride at those carnival fun fair. Well, what do you expect, the mother who at last will give the son the green light of playing the ride for the second time, in this kind of playing games in a theme park, you must require to pay when you want to play, face the fact that nothing is free in today's modern world. Play here doesn't mean it must be a kid who want to play something fun and enjoyable in a theme park, but it perhaps can be an adult game as well. Yeah! Adult game is funner if you ask some, hey, if kids can play then adults can play too,right? That's the natural rule of law right? What comes around, goes around.

When I thought about this idea of Playing,it doesn't mean it must be for kids, but adult as well can enjoy their play, as in gambling?? Well the world of adult has become a huge area where more people want to put it more creative ways in making adult life enjoyable then ever! Here, we talk about the idea of pornography, or perhaps the originality of prostitution behind the back alley. Adults life no longer in a dull era, where the cyber world has motivate adult in goggling any kind of videos they wanna watch, from nice video to a very naughty video which involve touching, kissing, and perhaps a little bit of penetrating either to women or man or vice versa=).

The idea here, people encourage you paying it to enjoy this unlimited excess to all this kind of immoral human behavior,where most religious person will go against the idea of paying for this kind of illegal conduct, because by paying to this illegal conduct it seems like it is a business rather than a bad conduct in a particular religion,face the whole fact that most religion doesn't allow this kind of behavior, well can you tell me one religion that permit such immoral conduct? No,right?

The idea is simple, adult wanna have fun as how kids can have fun with their play date, a father wanna have fun with his own play date(his wife, or perhaps a prostitute, for that matter) and the kids is also having a play date with her friends, well the kids is more clear to understand in terms when comes to 'play'date because they usually play dolls for girls or soldier for the boys. The different here is that the adult need to pay for their play. Is this something new? I don't think so! Imagine here, you are paying for a nice body massage but instead the person who massage you can ask you if you require any additional service on the time period. It all requires pay. If you pay is that consider illegal? Yes? Or No? For some country it is legal but to some it is not, so depends on what kinds of illegal conduct are you talking about based on the jurisdiction of the city.

Here, I just try to relate how the adulthood change us just like how we used to have during our childhood time, where we use to have a little bit of fun playing car racing and DOTA(most probably in ASIA countries) and having our play dates during the weekend with our friends, but i don't think kids nowadays want to play games anymore, i just scared that they will move towards the adulthood playing fantasy too fast and too soon, i hope all of us, especially parents,if ever you read this article, please ensure your kids play with the right person, and make sure they always under your protection, kids doesn't know anything about the real world, adult is not a good hood at all, nothing to be proud of, and so we need to ensure our generation to come is indeed in a good condition to live in, its all start from us.

STOP paying for something you don't wish to see your kids wanna play one day, because every each price you pay will just get back to you at the end of the day.

Happy Holiday guys!!

p/s for those who wanna play, play safe ok!=P

I'll be home for Christmas!

Drinking a cup of hot chocolate drink,while having some biscuits and typing this piece while looking at the window,where outside is snowing and while listening "I'll be home for Christmas", just make the whole scene more meaningful. But face the fact REDZA!! There is no such snowing outside there, its noisy with fire crackers and people yelling behind the nearest mamak stall, don't know what hell is any game is on during this festive season, but anyhow this piece for those who is celebrating it or not just enjoy the holiday season that actually part of cultural in Malaysia.
So, the holiday is here! Christmas song been turning on and on around the shopping mall, every shop been well decorated with nice green,white,silver and red colour! This is the whole idea of this festive season where you can see beautiful decorations anywhere you go, people do caroling around shopping malls and church as well. At home, where family get together, present are open, have nice meal together with all your love ones. This is the amazing time to get together where everyone can get together and share the most memorable moment of the year. The moment you have together is simply priceless, imagining mum who cook since morning, in ensuring her kids favourites meal been serve on the table and ensuring the best desert is enduring each one of them. And ending up the night with sitting together near the living hall and opening presents that they receive. Here, little boy and girls will be the most exciting moment of the year, puzzles, toys, and perhaps clothes will be among the gift for the kids, sometimes adult also will giving out some gift(expensive gift) jewelery for the ladies and perhaps some nice golf stick to the man(maybe not all play golf nowadays). So, here is the season of the year where everyone get together and enjoy this moment togetherness of being with your love one. The price of being together is simply priceless and here is the time where we see what we had/have done for the past one year and try to ensure we can improve our self in the coming new year! 2012!!! List all Your list?? Well, think properly and ensure that everything that you wanna do, not something that other people expect you to do!
So guys enjoy the season of the holiday, there is no barrier of not to celebrating other people festive season, but wishing is indeed not a problem. Get some candy people!!!


p/s there is more meaningful reason to celebrating this season, so enjoy it people.

happy holiday!

You Want It ,Then Go Get It!

Have you ever thought that one day you will wake up and seeing yourself in front of the mirror and having all those thing that you wish you can get, wait a minute, who is this in front of the mirror? Is it me? With a nice physique, great hair, nice bone structure too, nice height, and everything seems to be in places, right?
Didn't you wonder to have that kind of life in your live? Let me tell you something, everyone want the exact same thing! IF you are denying the fact then you are indeed living in a denial!
Just see our self in front of the mirror just make us wanna throw a hard rock to make it smash into pieces that you never want to see it happen again. Life is so amazing where we, human being, god creation on this planet never realize the whole concept of doing it yourself thing, if you wish to have those body that those girls on those Victoria Secrets show, then work on it! If you don't like your hair then go change to another new hair that suit you best, if you have more money perhaps you can go to the extent of doing some cosmetic surgery to some of your problem parts, in making this idea successful is hard because one need a lot of courage to be in the Operation Room, this can be a daunting experience for some. The idea of getting things done is when you wish to have something that you want it for so long, its not easy to get something that is nice and can make you happy, its like a marriage, where no marriage on earth is a happy marriage without its ups and down. So face the fact that you are fat and ugly and perhaps old but it will not change the way you look yourself in the mirror. Like it or not the day will come when you turn around and say to your partner that my body is ugly but i don't mind because i meant to be this way, here to some extent we cant deny something that god has set us, but something we can do to make our life more meaningful is to get what we want from the beginning.
Most of us is planning to do many things for this 2012,for some they perhaps wanna lose some weight, for some wanna excel in their studies, for some perhaps wanna improve on their working experiences. Stop planning for the new YEAR instead what everyone saying its better for us to start NOW!! Now or Never, better do it now! So go chase your dream and get your goal done! Be happy and life to the fullers..

Be happy you all....

Miserable enough not to be part of something amazing!

Performing Arts is been part of my dream, in full filling this is hard but to imagine myself doing it is easy, that's the main problem about human being, we intent to imagine and day dreaming but when comes to doing it then its hard. I always like to "wow" people on stage, if you never feel how it feels like, it feels like you just make other people more happier in their life and when seeing those face left the building while talking about how fantastic the show was, makes me relieve! But sometimes, we cant please everyone, for some will react this way,"that shows need more props" or "i don't think that guy is cute", well guys and fellow audience,its hard to fulfill what you and the whole audience wants in general.
I came a long way in this performing arts, maybe not as long as some but i did enjoy doing what i'm doing right now. Singing.Acting.Dancing. Just part of my soul and mind is for stage performance.
Any performer has their dream in doing something they wanna do as a performer, i always wanna try out to be one of the role in Les Miserable, a well wrote french story in the 1862 but now a well know musical around the world. This whole story line of Les Miserable have something to do with love,war,history,family and dignity to a country. Besides another reason why i wanna do this musical is because the song is simply amazing,the writers for the music has a brilliant idea in putting things in perspective and the whole story has a meaningful sights in a very interesting way. One day perhaps my less fortunate dream that i dreamed here right now will come true,who knows?

sing off baby

The Art Of Shopping

Who does not fall into shopping, girls? Guys? Everybody in general? Everyone that i know love to shop, well things that we wear and things that we use in our daily life, those stuff.
I was in the idea of writing this article down after saw some of my old stuff like those Abercrombie & Fitch sweater that i seldom wear, then those stuff that you bought that you thought you going to wear for some kid birthday party, all this stuff is under the sense that people buying stuff and they only use this stuff only at one particular time. Well, the whole action of going for shopping is for buying our necessary item, right? So how can we from buying something that suppose to be "necessary" but turn into something more "than necessary". The plan here is to enter a particular shopping mall and complete your mission of buying what you want and that's all, nothing more than that, don't even look or even stare at those nice jeans from Calvin Klein Jeans, or even smell those nice aromatic candle from Lovely Lace, shopping makes people happy, so when you buy something with your own money then you will feel the full of satisfaction in yourself. But, does this last for long? Not long my dear readers. One should open their eyes to many possibility that shopping can make us in debt, most of us in this modern age have a credit card, my lecturer quoted " never, ever, have your own credit card once you graduate" ,as this will lead to a monetary crisis, as this will be the time when you will intent to buy many things that you can require. So spent wisely, have some money left for your food, you cant starve till death just because you want those pretty yet gorgeous shoes from Uncle Choo, or don't start eating cucumber just because you wanna have those new IPhone4s. Be reasonable on what you can spent and spent on something that you really need, god make us human being in a very peculiar way, some can control and some couldn't. So,girls just stay strong when you past those nice Coach store, and guys control your girls, but sometimes it doesn't matter, even guys will enter those shops as well*wink..

shopping off girls & guys

Smoking for your life? Or Save for your life?

The idea of smoking is beyond our imagination, how can someone thought of having a smoke through the idea of absorbing something inside your body, well it goes deep to our thought how it can damage our health and once you watch all those commercial stating that its dangerous to smoke and some it can catch certain type of disease,but is this whole idea of spreading the moral of smoking suppose to be notice by everyone? well take example today, i pass through this one shop, i seen this one guy smoking in front of his son, and later he throw the cigarette butt beside the road, and the son was seeing his dad doing all this thing in front of his own eye. The whole cycle will happen either in another 10 years or maybe worst still, just a couple of years?
The son will turn into his dad, taking his dad footstep in becoming the next smoker in the coming future, see, this is why we human being continue to have the whole heritage thing from inheritance it from generation to generation,well, if we inheritance something which can consider good for example good looks* good music skills* then that will be something to be proud of, perhaps you can just posted in the tweeter for the whole world to know. But please. Smoking is nothing to be proud of. There is no big deal if you smoke since you were in high school because we know you just wanna act cool in front of those girls. But slap yourself very hard,no girls will like to see their man to smoke. So people smoking is a dangerous thing to do, act positive when you need, and act wisely when you need to. It must come to the whole scenario when you are old and waiting yourself to say "this is my time to die" only you would realize that "i should stop smoking when i was a young man".. but now "its too late..."


smoke off people...

BLOODY dream....

It's like you get back your life and reumenarated from your wildess dream ever by checking if ever your dream becomes true. MY dream was all over the place written in red crimson Blood,scary yet merely coincidence in reality where all I dreamt was a cover of a newspaper full with Blood and it's a bad sign of someone will die or someone will get killed. James Patterson mentioned the idea of crime will never ever stopped even the last human being stand on this planet will think of blood as a major idea of dying...

Get into a place with a full loaded gun and just randomly choose anyone to take their life,that's what was happening in Oslo,Norway, where 92 peole were killed and 94 were injured. How was this happening? A guy get around and just shoot everyone and he doesn't have the intention or either motive doing so, it's like a solving a puzzle when you talk about criminal minds, they are just illusive in nature and full with bloods when it comes to crime situation. No one likes to see blood, a parents while in the car driving back to their respective kampung will be closing their little ones sides from seeing those accidents occurence or worst still bloods on the road side or not to mention some pieces of body parts that scattered here and there. It's relevant when someone just faint whenever they seen such thing but how about those who working as a CSI team or perhaps working in the mourn room where looking at those innocent human that won't want to know that their body been slashed from head to toe. There are some people who can do that and some people who can actually stand all the horror situation when comes to human bodies without a soul and seeing blood is just a beginning for it.

Sign off...

IT ALL ENDS!

"The Boy Who Lived" is one of the most crazy lines that been said by all those BIG FANS of Harry Potter since the first edition of this book that came out in the year of 1999. Since then it has become one of the best film yet and the best book series by kids and not to forgotten adults too. Well I'm not a movie critics but I'm ONE of those dying fans of harry potter since the philosopher's stone till the end of its saga which came out in cinema as the deathly hallows. This movie is just the ending of what we should liked it to be,where here must survived and they lived happily ever after,well its not easy to get that far. In this book or perhaps in this movie I should say, its the end of what we're waiting for, its the battle between the good and evil. There will be only one man standing at the end of this battle(and it must be the cute and strong hero,ofcourse) the whole idea of Harry Potter of finding the secret of his past is finally came to reveal where he will know everything he supposed to know but some supposed to be kept as secret but if he wished to knock "He Who Must Not Be Named" or "You-Know-Who"....lol then he must know it very well about all of the main idea of this things might work by knowing he need to vanished all the hocruxes and getting the elderly wand from "You-Know-Who" and kill him once and for all then everything will come to an end. I should say I cannot compared this movie acted by Daniel Radcliffe as the Boy Who Lived and side-by-side with his great companion Emma Watson as the brilliant Miss Hermione Granger which finally fall in love with their another counter part Rupert Grint as the charming Ron Weasley...

For those out there, I will asked you not to miss this movie because this is THE best movie ever to watch of this year...and liked I said IT ALL ENDS!!!!!!! SO AVADA KEDAVRA!!!!!!!

July

JULY!! Finally its already middle of the month, I dont really remember the last time when I'm feeling so happy to be in this situation, but looking at it where this is a huge month for myself which I will turning 22!! My dad's surgery when well....my studies when well....my life to put in one word can be almost "Perfect", well no one is perfect for that matter. But in my situation I must admit that I'm being very different well compared to before where I'm certainly changing to become a better person. Yeah!! I hope this is my new birthday resolution, "to be better". MY Best Friend, Preeya is coming back home soon....CANT WAIT to meet with her,so many stories to share and to make things nice she's going to celebrate MY birthday together....LIKE OLD DAYS! Its been awhile I didn't called her or text her, she's having her time of her life in Indonesia there, just glad for her that she can enjoyed her time there, as for me with my normal life well not to say normal maybe I should put it as challenging and yet FUN! My adrenaline to do the things that I like such as teaching my students is just keep rolling. Yeah! Did I told you guys,readers that I'm actually teaching at a tuition centre for UPSR,PMR and SPM level. Its fun! But yet tiring but I enjoy doing it though...Well its a HUGE month and I just can't wait for MY big day!! It will be great!=)

Life

Life and death is just beyond our duty, some will deny this even if they do not want to get old and live the life that they do not wish to live. It is sad but rather cruel when life is always unpredictable, life is just between us and god. Yeah! Who were those who believe that life is just to work and eat and get things done the way it supposed to be, then it is absolutely wrong. Life is more than that. Life is meaningful for some, and perhaps does not mean anything on the contrary. It depends on how we look at it from our point of view. It is rather vague to say that life is so dry when we actually do not live in anything rather than lies and denial. Look around you, and see those who work very hard just to get their end of month wages. Look at those who want to survive by working around the clock just to get the essential food for their kids at home. Some never realised this and maybe some just do not want to think about this at all. What is the main purpose of us living on this planet? Is it for life and death? Or rather try everything that does not give any boundary for us to do (not committing a crime of course), maybe travel to the wonderful Italy and give a try for the best pizza in Naples or perhaps try sky diving to challenge your courage to do something crazy and wild.
Some people believe that life is just to get marry and not to mention about having kids, this to ensure that our genes for each person or family can be inheritance, this is the problem here. Imagine if a guy or may be a girl who actually do not want to get marry and enjoy their single life but little did they know that they need to get marry one day. This cause by the conservative parents who believed that their kids must continue up giving their gens to the following future. But imagine this, people with a high qualification and those who have a professional background are highly the one who will ending up single forever. Some argued that they are too choosy and some argued that they cannot find the suitable partner. Life is so funny and weird. People just want to be happy and they thought that they can always stay happy forever after. Well, face the fact, we all going to get old one day and we all will eventually die one day. There is no question about if we can be happy or not, it is just depends on us how we draw our life line. It is rather daunting to face the fact of life. Some maybe were born in a rich family and some will be born in a home-racking-family where both parents might abusing their kids and just be selfish about the whole temptation of life.
I met one of my close friends the other day, and at my surprised she’s going to get marry. Out of sudden, right? She told me she cannot live single forever and she needs a husband. I was speechless, she is so young and she has so many things to learn and to explore about the world and she is going to give it all and just settle at home as a full time housewife at the age of 22!! Gosh. This is amazing. And so crazy. Imagine what my friend keep telling me that she wants a husband at that age, how about those who like 45 years old and still looking for the right one? And by the way, my friend been set up with this one guy that she herself did not know about but she did not hesitate on accepting the offer of marriage by that guy. Life is so unpredictable again. Life is meaningful but rather weird when you just want to give it all just to have a family. Look people, those out there who have huge dreams, maybe becoming a surgeon like those in Grey’s Anatomy or maybe become a Broadway star and just unleash your talent and your amazing ideas to the whole world to see can be a good start for a wonderful life. Does not matter if you are at the right side where others think you are not, but look at it as you are living the life you ever wanted. And if this you choose to live then maybe this is how you should continue doing it. I wish this article can inspire hundreds of people out there to go after their dreams and live the life they ever want it to be. Just be yourself in every aspect and finish whatever you had start and never ever say NO to yourself even though others might think it’s weird on what you are doing. As long what you’re doing is right and you’re happy with it, then no question about that.

New hairdo for 2011...

2011!!!! New Year!! New Shirt!! New Pants!! and Must have NEW HAIR!! lol. not really new, I just like it simple and tidy, took this picture this afternoon...enjoy the face expression...

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